A WEEKEND OF WORKING THROUGH CODEPENDENT STRATEGIES!

Power Past Codependent Relationships Event

Unleash Your Authentic Power in Relationships

March 24 - 26, 2023

The Power Past Codependent Relationships Event is a weekend
LIVE experience designed to change the way you do relationships.

A WEEKEND OF WORKING THROUGH CODEPENDENT STRATEGIES!

2.5-day LIVE event with Heather & Anne
Codependent Strategy Quiz
Striving Styles Personality Assessment
Digital Relationship Style Report
Priority access to future offers and discounts

Can’t come yourself? Refer a friend, colleague or family member and receive 15% off attendance at the next PPCR Event or Striving Styles Personality Assessment and Digital Relationship Style Report.

Join Dr. Anne Dranitsaris and Heather Dranitsaris-Hilliard, bestselling authors, behavioral change and relationship experts for an in-depth look at the codependent strategies you've adopted that are getting in the way of fulfilling relationships. Come prepared to make a profound shift in consciousness that will empower you in all your relationships.

You will discover how to:

Identify how we chose to give our Power away in relationships
Identify how you take Power from others in relationships
Learn about the 6 Power Pillars needed to strengthen your authentic self
Build tolerance to uncomfortable feelings
Commit to letting go of codependent strategies
Stop taking responsibility for others so you can take responsibility for yourself

This is an interactive, self-development, transformational live experience with Anne & Heather! The event format is to facilitate you working through barriers to creating healthy relationships by confronting the codependent strategies you use that are causing issues.

This is NOT an event where you come, share feelings, and then go home and do relationships the same dysfunctional way you've been doing them before. Our approach is strategically designed to expose your codependent strategies and empower your authentic self so that you can transform your relationships!

If you are codependent, you are not alone.
Statistics show that 90% of all Americans identify with being codependent, especially in their relationships.

Some say it's a disease or mental illness.
Others say they are addicted to love.
Many believe they are powerless to do anything about it.

Did you know that these are three of the most common myths that cause us to suffer needlessly in unhappy relationships? Many therapists suggest talking about the pain of being codependent.

But to really free yourself to be in a healthy relationship, you have to
talk about Power - THE POWER OF CHOICE!

BEING CODEPENDENT MEANS WE ARE STUCK IN THE PAST

Did you know that when you are stuck in the codependent stage of development, you bond as children do in relationships because that's the only way you know how? You seek relationships with others who make you feel either safe, useful, in control or needed. This immediately sets up a power dynamic with one person dominating and the other submitting to make the relationship work.

By becoming submissive, you try to be what you believe others want you to be so they will accept and love you. You conform to someone else's norm distancing yourself from your authentic self. You try hard to do what they expect you to be and not necessarily who you are. You project Power and authority onto them, make everything about them, sometimes acting like we have no rights, needs or expectations.

Alternately, you can use dominant strategies, working hard to get others to conform to what you want and need them to be. You will work really hard to try to make the other person into who you need them to be. By taking care of them, you stay in a dominant role, cut off from your own wants and needs, focusing on fixing them and acting like you have no emotions, needs, or issues. You take their Power by making them dependent on you.

In codependent relationships, we try to get from others what was not given to us in our formative relationships. Because we got stuck there, we are trying to pick up where we left off. That means we have relationships like a 8, 14, or 17 year old. Wherever we happen to get stuck. We don't know how to use authentic Power, so we use the strategies that worked as a kid.

It's SO hard to stop having codependent relationships when you believe you are hopelessly codependent. And while you've tried everything to make relationships work and change the behavior of the others you're in relationships with, things are STILL going SO very wrong. And you're STILL dissatisfied. Sad, isn't it? You've probably tried 12-step programs, individual and group therapy, relationship counselling, and talking endlessly to friends. Yet, you STILL can't get your partner and others to act the way you think they SHOULD.

BUT WAIT A SECOND...

Changing others is the agenda of someone stuck in the Codependent Stage of Development
Blaming others and expecting them to be different is what keeps us stuck
Putting our energy into others so we can feel less powerless and make the relationship tolerable still doesn't meet our needs

That's because TRYING to make the relationship work and
changing others means you haven't been focusing on YOU!

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POWER PAST CODEPENDENT RELATIONSHIPS EVENT

Why is the event so impactful?

Challenges the limiting myths of Codependence, allowing you to work through and power past dysfunctional codependent behaviors
Takes you beyond the so-called symptoms of Codependence
Shows you how to emerge powerful by owning your behavioral strategies that create codependent relationships
Leaves you feeling empowered to take on whatever relationship challenges you may face with new insights, self-awareness, and relationship tools

We know what it takes to help you do relationships from your authentic self.
This transformational workshop will take you beyond the current limitations of your codependent strategies.

But it takes more than sharing your past, being validated by others, or expressing emotions to change. ALTHOUGH ALL OF THESE ARE IMPORTANT, it takes the POWER OF CHOICE to move beyond the dysfunctional behaviors and beliefs that cause you to settle in relationships.

Sign up for your Power Past Codependent Relationships Event and bring a friend for the same price!

OVERVIEW OF THE EVENT

Day 1:
Friday Evening

During the first evening, we'll enlighten you about what Codependence REALLY is and why you keep creating the same codependent relationships. We'll do some myth-busting about Codependence to start the process of setting yourself free from self-limiting beliefs. And, best of all, we'll give you visibility into the previously invisible Codependent Strategies in all your relationships: marriage, parenting, family, business, friends... even your relationship with yourself!

You'll learn that the beliefs and strategies you adopted to survive in your relationships are based both on nature and nurture. How your brain is organized has so much to do with how you behave in relationships. When you are stuck in the codependent stage, these beliefs get in the way of your growth and development, especially when you allow the events and relationships from the past control how you behave in relationships today.

In this evening session, you will open the door to future relationships that aren't framed by "I can't do or say that, because when I was a kid…" You will be offered the choice of finally releasing yourself from the patterns of behavior that have held you back from satisfying relationships.

What is Codependence?
Myths about Codependence that stop our growth
Nature and nurture: how we are hard-wired to relate
Self-protection and the Archetypes of Survival
Q&A Segment

POWER OF CHOICE POINT

Are you willing to decide to leave the past behind and free yourself from the limitations of blaming the past for present day issues?

Day 2:
Saturday

On this full day of the Event, we'll do a deep dive into your codependent strategies and why you keep creating the same relationships over and over again. You'll discover what you have already given up to stay codependent and share what you have lost throughout your life as a result.

POWER OF CHOICE POINT

Will you continue to give up what you value most to be in relationships?

Learning the patterns and strategies that contribute to codependence is the first step in taking back your Power. Gain insight into how your strategies are self-defeating and don't serve you sets you up to make different choices. You don't need to change your partner, children or friends. You will learn that it's you that needs to develop.

You'll also learn how blaming others – the skill of making others responsible for our feelings and all the upsetting, disappointing things that happen to us – keeps us stuck in our development with the capacity to only create codependent relationships.

Everything you haven't been able to see about your behavior because you were looking at the behavior of others will become clear. Be prepared for multiple "aha" moments as you are set up to own your own behavior and how you contribute to your codependent relationships.

We'll explore how you use blame to keep yourself in your comfort zone and why you are not taking responsibility for your Power and Choices.

POWER OF CHOICE POINT

Are you willing to stop blaming others and begin to take responsibility for yourself, your gifts, talents, abilities and happiness?

We will help YOU leave behind everything that isn't working for you in your relationships by shifting the focus onto you and your responsibility for the development of your authentic self. Get ready for an experience that will rock your inner world and empower you to change your life and relationships!

What we have lost to Codependence
How blame stops our development
Blame, guilt, manipulation and other weapons of self-destruction
What is personal authority and authentic self-expression
Learn how the misuse of personal power and authority causes Codependence
From the results of the Codependence Strategy Quiz, share your stories with others like you and discover how common these behaviors are
Find out your most used Dominant & Submissive Codependent Strategies and why you use them
Explore the negative self-talk you use to keep you submissive
Explore the devaluing or invalidating thoughts you have about others that cause you to dominate
Release yourself from the relationship anxiety that drives codependent strategies

Day 3:
Sunday

On the final day of the Event, we introduce you to the building blocks for letting go of Dominant and Submissive codependent strategies. We will also take you through an experience that will help you finally see the things you're doing that you didn't even know were BLOCKING your development.

Now you know your codependent strategies, it’s time to look ahead and identify alternate behaviors and the stories you tell yourself that get in the way of your Power to Choose. You’ll match old codependent behaviors with new healthy ways of behaving in relationships by playing the MATCH GAME. This is a powerful way of resetting your brain patterns and getting you unstuck.

With what you learn on Day 3, you'll be able to both let go of the strategies you use to manage anxiety in relationships and to build your authentic self. We'll show you why you need to leave the workshop with an intention to focus on you, not fix your relationships. Get this - you can only change your relationships if you change your own behavior.

Create your desired future relationship behavior
Identify what do you have to give up to achieve it
Identify the Codependent Strategies you want to let go of
Learn the importance of building trust in yourself using the building blocks of our authentic self
Building blocks for letting go of Dominant and Submissive strategies
Building blocks for strengthening your authentic self
Pick a Practice Partner
And way more... there's too much to list!

POWER OF CHOICE POINT

Are you willing to let go of your Codependent Strategies and step out of your comfort zone?

The Power Past Codependent Relationships Event ISN'T For Everyone

We know what it takes to experience breakthroughs and what it takes to change codependent relationship strategies. It is not for the observers, the faint of heart, those who aren’t ready to embrace the POWER OF CHOICE.

So, if you want to come, sit back and watch without DOING the work… NOTHING in your relationships will change.

If you're looking for a "quick fix" or a trick or a new way to help or change others, you're going to be disappointed. That's not what we do here.

We focus on giving YOU the breakthrough insights, self-awareness and tools to do relationships from your authentic self.

And it's in the IMPLEMENTATION of new behaviors in real life that causes change in your relationships.

It's NOT because you told them they have to change or you have found just the right fix for them to make their breakthrough.

At the Power Past Codependent Relationships Event, you will learn how to stop using the behaviors and strategies you might not even be aware you are doing that foster codependence in your relationship and learn to encourage a “we” partnership.

If you think they have to change for you to be okay, you’re operating from your codependent "my way or the highway" strategy, expecting if you harp long enough or show the other person through your own behavior what they SHOULD be doing and you aren’t willing to try something NEW, this is going to be challenging for you.

So, if you are ready to dive in and do the work, the Power Past Codependent Relationships Event set you on course to having relationships that support you being all that you can be, in your life, in your career and in the fulfilment of your potential.

The Key to Powering Past Codependent Relationships

is by attending our live weekend event!

How many books, articles, podcasts, and webinars have you read and listened to and not changed your behavior? You probably keep looking for something new and different to do to get others to behave differently toward you and nothing seems to work. The more you try, the more disillusioned you become.

That’s because conforming and trying to be what others want or trying to change others behavior and get them to conform is the root of the codependent relationship.

The solution is simple - STOP TRYING. Just be you. But wait…

Here’s where you might be thinking:

That makes me feel anxious
Others won’t like me
I could never do that
Others will get mad
I’ll get fired
I won’t have any friends

And so the excuses go.

Unless you are willing to accept you don’t have to try or work so hard at it, you will keep making excuses and blaming yourself and all the other negative self-talk you use when your relationships are unsatisfying.

WITH EVERYTHING THAT’S AT STAKE, ARE YOU WILLING TO SAY “NO” TO A WEEKEND EVENT THAT WILL

CHANGE EVERYTHING YOU DON’T LIKE ABOUT THE WAY YOU BEHAVE IN RELATIONSHIPS?

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